Richard Gere on Fame, Happiness, and Buddhism
Richard Gere has been a familiar face in Hollywood for decades, yet he remains grounded. The actor also serves as an executive producer of the documentary Wisdom of Happiness, which focuses on the teachings of the Dalai Lama and the pursuit of genuine joy. Gere has embraced Buddhism for over 40 years.
Dealing with Fame
When asked how he manages fame and ego after so many years in Hollywood, Gere acknowledged that he isn’t unaffected by it. “Everyone goes through that,” the 77-year-old told Fox News Digital. Greed, anger, jealousy, and impatience affect everyone. Gere credits his Buddhist training for helping him understand and manage these emotions.
“The mind is clear and knowing; it has a sense of wisdom,” Gere explained. “The other stuff, like dark clouds, comes and goes.”
Pursuing True Happiness
Gere believes that true happiness does not come from external sources. “Happiness and peace come from within us,” he stated. Material success only provides temporary pleasure, similar to enjoying a piece of chocolate. Gere focuses on removing habits that make us feel bad, as we control and are responsible for our experiences.
He now questions the significance of material wealth. “What’s really important? Is it what I own or what I am?” Gere asked rhetorically, emphasizing that nothing external can permanently provide happiness.
Life Beyond the Spotlight
Richard Gere has found peace away from fame. He divides his time between Spain and upstate New York. “Spain is my wife’s country,” Gere said. “When she’s super happy, I’m super happy.” He cherishes his childhood memories in the Northeast, and these continue to impact him significantly.
Gere has two sons with his wife, Spanish publicist Alejandra Silva, and maintains a close relationship with his eldest son, Homer, from a previous marriage. Reflecting on his own experiences at his son’s age, Gere has moved past being overly concerned with others’ opinions.
Spiritual and Personal Growth
Gere grew up in a Christian family in Pennsylvania. His upbringing highlighted the importance of helping others, a lesson that resonated with him when he discovered Buddhism. “Buddhism was willing to explore larger questions,” Gere noted, such as understanding human reality and potential.
The lessons Gere learned from farmers have stayed with him. Farmers have an acceptance of life’s uncertainties. “When the rain doesn’t come, who are you going to complain to?” Gere said, highlighting acceptance and hard work as core values.
Gere admires the Dalai Lama for his dedication and daily practices aimed at personal growth. The Dalai Lama rises early every day to work on his mind and motivation, an effort Gere respects deeply.
Documentary’s Impact
Gere’s connection with Wisdom of Happiness became more personal after watching it with his wife. The documentary’s editing and completion occurred during challenging global times, reinforcing its message about compassion and the human capacity for kindness. Gere hopes that viewers will be reminded of the importance of a warm heart and generosity of spirit.
Wisdom of Happiness is now available for digital rental or purchase.