Gossiping Strains Relationship, Partner Attempts Change

Dear Eric,

I’m reaching out for advice as I’m caught in a dilemma. I’m quite fond of gossiping and find enjoyment in indulging in it. This habit doesn’t bring any guilt to me. Yet, my spouse strongly dislikes this behavior, and we are experiencing tension because of it.

I engage in gossiping with friends, during phone calls, and in social settings. Although I don’t involve my spouse in these conversations, he believes it casts me in an unfavorable light. His concern is persistent, and it’s affecting our relationship.

Now, I’m attempting to change this habit, despite my reluctance to do so.