Remembering Tim O’Malley: Comedian, Teacher, and Advocate

Tim O’Malley, a beloved figure in the city, passed away on May 11 at the age of 68 due to natural causes. His death brought shock and tears but also smiles as people remembered a man who, along with his talent, used his life experiences to inspire and help others. O’Malley was a gifted performer and teacher at The Second City, known for his humor and dedication.

His partner, Pamela Staker, a visual artist, shared about their life together without needing formal marriage. ‘We met in 2005, and that was that,’ Staker said, emphasizing their decision to commit to each other as ‘life partners.’ Their relationship demonstrated a playful yet deep affection, with O’Malley showing fierce protectiveness and loyalty.

O’Malley grew up in Beverly, Chicago, as the tenth of eleven children of Thomas Aloysius and Mary Frances O’Malley. His interest in acting emerged during college at Southern Illinois University. By 1986, he joined The Second City touring company and eventually performed on the Mainstage alongside stars like Bonnie Hunt and Chris Farley.

Despite his early success, O’Malley’s career was disrupted by addiction. He had aspirations for roles on ‘Saturday Night Live,’ but turned to alcohol and drugs amid career setbacks. By 1993, he left Second City and battled addiction until his father and sister urged him to seek help. A 90-day Gateway Foundation program marked his journey to sobriety.

O’Malley returned to Second City in 1996 as a faculty member, influencing many as a teacher. He wrote and performed ‘Godshow,’ an autobiographical play acclaimed for its impact. More recently, he developed a Gateway program using improv to aid recovery, called ‘Immediacy in Effective Communication.’ This initiative reached men with troubled pasts, showcasing the power of group support in recovery.

O’Malley remained dedicated to helping others, including his efforts to assist friend Chris Farley. Even shortly before Farley’s death due to an overdose, O’Malley extended support, though Farley did not make it to their last agreed meeting. Musing on addiction’s tragic reach, O’Malley reflected on how it affects not only celebrities but also everyday individuals in all walks of life.