Navigating a Sudden Cancer Diagnosis: Renee’s Journey

At the start of 2026, I hoped for a fresh chapter in my life. Having faced significant grief by age 21, optimism for the future seemed within reach. Yet, unforeseen challenges arose that year.

In January, a visit to my doctor included a routine examination of my face, neck, and jaw. During the check, she noticed a small lump in my neck. Initially, I was not overly concerned due to its size and the ongoing flu season, a common time for infections.

‘The lump might be a residual effect of an infection,’ my doctor suggested. I was advised to return in six weeks if there were no changes.

Weeks passed, and as the lump remained, it grew, prompting another doctor’s visit in mid-March. There were now additional lumps. Again, the connection to infections or chronic sinusitis was considered, leading to another six-to-eight-week waiting period.

By April, the situation had worsened, with at least seven lumps present. These fluctuated in size and were accompanied by unexpected symptoms like fatigue, itchy skin, night sweats, and unintentional weight loss. The urgency for answers intensified.

Upon urging my doctor to consider the severity, a referral to the head and neck clinic was made. In April, an ultrasound and biopsy were scheduled. Anticipation and concern filled the weeks that followed.

A notification about an ‘Oxford lymphoma biopsy’ appeared unexpectedly on my phone. Assuming it was to rule out lymphoma, I remained confused about the connection to Oxford.

Days later, missed calls and an emergency hospital appointment intensified my fears. During the meeting, a consultant confirmed the biopsy results: Hodgkin lymphoma.

‘I am not going to sugar coat this,’ the consultant began, delivering the life-altering news.

Shock engulfed me while my mother and I were led to the hematology department. The reality of stage two Hodgkin lymphoma set in as we discussed treatment options.

The treatment plan involved six chemotherapy sessions, each with its challenges including weakness, acid reflux, and hair loss. June marked a notable point as I chose to shave my head before hair loss took that choice away.

A PET scan in late July revealed that remission was achieved. The chemotherapy plan has since been reduced and I am close to concluding treatment, aiming to ring the bell that signifies the end of my medical journey.

Although my health is now manageable, the recent past is difficult to process. Experiences of grief followed by cancer have been taxing, but I hope this signifies the end of such misfortune, allowing for healing.

My message to others is clear: trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, like an unexpected lump, seek medical advice.

Renee Coakes, from the U.K., now 22, shares her story on social media platforms like TikTok (@renegadesspamx) to advocate for Hodgkin lymphoma awareness.